What to expect on your 1^st consultation

For your first consultation, the oncologist will conduct a thorough and in-depth history and examination. This will include an assessment of the scans and tests you may have had beforehand.  He can then formulate a treatment strategy that is most appropriate for you. This initial consultation with your oncologist is more important than you may realize!

Here are some suggestions to help transform your initial visit into a productive relationship. Just a bit of preparation will help you get the most out of your first appointment.

TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL 1^stCONSULTATION

1. Don’t come alone. Bring someone with you - a family member or close friend. In addition to providing emotional support, it helps to have extra pairs of ears available to remember what was discussed, take notes for you, and remind you of key questions that you may have overlooked.
2. Gather up your questions and key concerns. There is no such thing as a silly question when your life is on the line. You owe it to yourself to have all your concerns addressed. Record your questions and bring your list with you to get answers.
3. Record the timeline of your health. The first thing the oncologist will ask about is your medical history. So, it’s helpful to write down your history to remember the timeline of events.
4. Bring copies of the key part of your medical records. The oncologist you’re meeting should have all your reports. This includes copies of scans, x-rays, MRIs, CTs, or other imaging tests that were done, and pathology report if a biopsy was performed.
5. Keep an open mind. Do not let bias or skepticism contaminate your decision regarding treatment. If you are keen on an alternative or complementary therapy, mention it to your Oncologist. Likewise, if you are convinced that all cancer treatments produce horrific side effects, confess your fears.
6. Speak up. Don’t withhold your thoughts or information from your oncologist as these may interfere with reaching your goal of being cancer-free. Share your frustrations or concerns. It would be terrible if mistrust, confusion, or anger festered to the point of interfering with your oncologist must journey together in a partnership of complete honesty.